Modern relationship fail cause

Το μεγαλύτερο πρόβλημα των ομοφυλοφύλων και όχι μόνο νομίζω ότι το διατύπωσε ακριβέστατα ο Andy Warhol ως εξής:

* Οι φαντασιώσεις είναι που δημιουργούν προβλήματα στους ανθρώπους. Αν δεν είχατε φαντασιώσεις δε θα είχατε προβλήματα, γιατί απλά θα παίρνατε ό,τι υπήρχε. Τότε όμως δε θα είχατε και ειδύλλια, γιατί το ειδύλλιο είναι να βρεις τη φαντασίωσή σου σε κάποιον που δεν την έχει. Ένας φίλος μου λέει: «Αγαπούν σ’ εμένα τον άντρα που δεν είμαι».

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I think that Andy warhol, expressed perfectly the main problem of gay and not only when he said that: Fantasy love is much better than reality love. Never doing it is very exciting. The most exciting attractions are between two opposites that never meet. A fiend of mine says: they love in me the man I am not.

So many people, project their fantasy on their partners, who of course do not meet this ideal. At the begining, this fantasy can be sustained, up to the point that it starts colapsing. Then the idea, that the ideal man, might be somewhere out there, waiting to be discouvered, while you are waisting your time with your current lover, makes them cheat on the partner.

My suggestion is to try to find someone near this ideal, and then try to live together and meet the person, forget the ideal, insist and learn from your mistakes in the relationship, then if one day this finishes, you will have earned valuable experience, that will make you choose better the next candidate. And what is more important, you can apply what you learned and avoid stupid mistakes with the man of your dreams, because you will be more mature...

People separate and give up on each others, so easily...
there is a reason for everything, you can do you life meanigless or meanigfull, learn from what you experience, and stop repeating the same mistakes....